{"id":11929,"date":"2017-05-17T07:00:32","date_gmt":"2017-05-17T12:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.senioradvisor.com\/blog\/?p=11929"},"modified":"2021-07-06T14:44:15","modified_gmt":"2021-07-06T19:44:15","slug":"when-your-elderly-neighbor-needs-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/d30braiqprupoq.cloudfront.net\/blog\/2017\/05\/when-your-elderly-neighbor-needs-help\/","title":{"rendered":"When Your Elderly Neighbor Needs Help"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>When Your Elderly Neighbor Needs Help<a href=\"https:\/\/s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/img.prod.aplaceformom.com\/main\/uploads\/sa-blog\/2017\/05\/When-Your-Elderly-Neighbor-Needs-Help.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-11952\" src=\"https:\/\/s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/img.prod.aplaceformom.com\/main\/uploads\/sa-blog\/2017\/05\/When-Your-Elderly-Neighbor-Needs-Help-350x293.png\" alt=\"When Your Elderly Neighbor Needs Help\" width=\"350\" height=\"293\" srcset=\"https:\/\/s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/img.prod.aplaceformom.com\/main\/uploads\/sa-blog\/2017\/05\/When-Your-Elderly-Neighbor-Needs-Help-350x293.png 350w, https:\/\/s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/img.prod.aplaceformom.com\/main\/uploads\/sa-blog\/2017\/05\/When-Your-Elderly-Neighbor-Needs-Help-768x644.png 768w, https:\/\/s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/img.prod.aplaceformom.com\/main\/uploads\/sa-blog\/2017\/05\/When-Your-Elderly-Neighbor-Needs-Help.png 940w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/a><\/h1>\n<p>As our population grows older, this is becoming a more common scene: neighbors trying to find help for another neighbor whose driving now poses a danger to others, whose home is in disrepair, or whose utilities are often cut off for nonpayment. If you&#8217;re in this situation, you may feel both worried for your neighbor and frustrated by your efforts to find assistance. Here are some things to know when your elderly neighbor needs help.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"western\">More seniors living alone and more \u201celder orphans\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Aging in place and living alone can work fine for seniors, as long as they&#8217;re socially connected and can live safely on their own. In 2014, about 12.5 million US seniors lived alone, including nearly half of American women age 75 and older.<\/p>\n<p>Problems arise, though, when solo-living seniors have no one to check in on them and no family to step in and help out. These so-called \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/news\/ct-elder-orphans-met-20161212-story.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>elder orphans<\/b><\/a>\u201d can suffer from social isolation, and health problems can cascade into poor self-care, a neglected home, and problems running errands and caring for pets.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"western\">Signs that your older neighbor may need help<\/h2>\n<p>You may notice behavior changes like increased irritability or confusion that can indicate health problems. Other signs your neighbor may be in need are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Erratic driving or new damage to their vehicle<\/li>\n<li>A suddenly unkempt appearance<\/li>\n<li>Pets left out all night to bark or no longer taken for walks<\/li>\n<li>No lights on at night, which can be a sign that the power has been cut off<\/li>\n<li>Failing to put trash out for weekly pickup<\/li>\n<li>Mail overflowing the mailbox<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you and others in the neighborhood are concerned, it&#8217;s time to ask for help.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"western\">Who should you talk to when a neighbor needs help?<\/h2>\n<p>Talk to your neighbor first, in a tactful way. You might start by asking how they&#8217;re doing and then mention something you&#8217;ve noticed, such as an unmowed lawn or mail spilling out of the box. Offer to help, if you&#8217;re willing and able to do so. Some people will gladly accept, others may not.<\/p>\n<p>Find out if your neighbor has family members you can contact to see if they can arrange for help. If your neighbor belongs to a religious congregation, ask the office if they have resources to help their senior members at home.<\/p>\n<p>If your neighbor is truly isolated, or if they need more services than neighbors and family can provide, get in touch with your local <a href=\"https:\/\/www.n4a.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>Area Agency on Aging<\/b> <\/a>and describe the situation to them. These agencies are the experts on what&#8217;s available in terms of<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>state, local, and federal benefits<\/li>\n<li>assistance programs to help seniors live safely at home<\/li>\n<li>health and wellness programs<\/li>\n<li>in-home care coordination<\/li>\n<li>adult day care<\/li>\n<li>senior housing options<\/li>\n<li>transportation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>and many other services.<\/p>\n<p>These agencies are a valuable resource for seniors and the people who care about them. You can search the national site to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.n4a.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>find your local Area Agency on Aging here<\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, remember that if you&#8217;re ever worried about your neighbor&#8217;s immediate safety\u2014you haven&#8217;t seen them in an unusually long time or they failed to return from an errand\u2014you can request a wellbeing check from your local police department or sheriff&#8217;s office.<\/p>\n<p>Learn more about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.senioradvisor.com\/blog\/?s=aging+in+place\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>aging in place safely<\/b><\/a> and see how <a href=\"https:\/\/www.senioradvisor.com\/blog\/2017\/02\/assisted-living-vs-aging-in-place\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>aging in place compares to assisted living<\/b><\/a> on the SeniorAdvisor.com blog.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Your Elderly Neighbor Needs Help As our population grows older, this is becoming a more common scene: neighbors trying to find help for another neighbor whose driving now poses a danger to others, whose home is in disrepair, or whose utilities are often cut off for nonpayment. 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